My Today

Wanna talk about my Today... It wasn't a good day for me cos Yunno u can't always be in a good mood.. As for me today is a bad for me because I have issue with my mom and she went and report me to my friends as if those friends were better than me. . Actually we have one older one's among us.. He's a little bit older than us but we give him his respect and because of that he started talking as if he is a saint... What actually happened was that I was fetching water at home then the pail fell from my hand and the water poured away from to her room.. I didn't let her know and I started  cleaning  the mess.. Hmm.. When she saw it she just started hurling abusive words on me and she won't let me say anything she believes it is intentional.. I tried talking but she won't allow.. I didnt show my anger I cleaned d floor and had my bath and left the house without eating her food.. Please have I done bad?? 

  The most annoying part now is Nobody cares about how I feel and what made d water to pour away they just keep on saying m a bad child just because she told them I did pour the water away because I was angry... So back to what happened today.. The uncle started counseling me too without asking me  what actually happened.. Please is it because of our culture here in Yoruba land or its general that a child won't be allowed to try and have a say on an issue and when u try to do they will conclude that u are rude and that is the worst part because even all the community elders wont ever side you... To me this is so wrong.. Though we are not as wise as our parent but at least we have if its just little to say to show our intention and how we feel.. We shouldn't be asked to keep mute on matters that concern us.. Nobody is always right... Our parent are wrong somehow.. And we can prove that politely.. Even a wayward child  should be given chance to explain his action not just be concluded he's a rude and disobedient child and he is left alone with reasons in his heart... But nobody to hear him out.. The society wipes him off...

Any matter we are to handle.. We shouldn't judge cos of what the accused said.. The accused might be right but The person being accused might have not as thought about that way or doesn't have the intention to harm the other person... Please let us try and hear other peoples opinion before jumping to sudden conclusion.. And we urge our parent to please always try and hear us out.. We have mind to think and heart to judge.. They should please give us chance to be free to defend ourselves against them and anywhere 


That's all about my day today except me watching movies which I think its not necessary.. Smiles.. Please give ur view about this post and do follow our blog. 
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